It’s not human nature to be great. It’s human nature to survive, to be average and do what you have to do to get by. That is normal. When you have something good happen, it’s the special people that can stay focused and keep paying attention to detail, working to get better and not being satisfied with what they have accomplished. By understanding what The Quadfather believes to be the most important mental and behavioral practices for building the grit and character needed to achieve the unthinkable, each and every one of us can individually set out to achieve our wildest aspirations. Explore the various strategies that collectively make up The Quadfather Way: Refuse to Settle and get Comfortable: One of the single most important reasons for his incomparable accolades can be found in his unwillingness to settle. While most individuals, across all walks of life, easily become appeased after tasting just a bit of success, The Qadfather never gets quite satisfied and remains unwilling to allow himself to see his accomplishments as good enough because he knows it’s not sustainable by thinking this way. Focus All Your Energy in the Present-Moment: For any individual who sets out to achieve truly ambitious goals, it can be nearly impossible to stop themselves from thinking about the final results and the beneficial outcomes that will come about. Without even realizing it, however, proceeding in this way takes them away from the place where true success is created. Becoming successful in any endeavor take CIA (Commitment Integrity & Attitude) Remember that Everything Matter: While there are many success strategies that have helped The Quadfather become successful you cannot forget about other areas of your life, like faith, family and dreams while concentrating on any specific facet of your life. The Quadfather molds people into champions of life. He makes sure they full understand that the little things matter and his expectations for them to become successful in everything they do. The reason, of course, is due to the fact that poor habits and disavowing ways of thinking can easily seep from one area of life into another. I think everybody should take the attitude that we’re working to be a successful outcome that we want to be a successful in everything that we do. The discipline to make good decisions in everything that we do every day is paramount to your success. Eliminate Distractions & Outside Noise: In the world we live in today, there are a seemingly endless number of distractions that keep us from doing the things that’ll help us achieve our goals in the most timely fashion. Smart phones, televisions and social media, for example, are just three of the many temptations that move us further away from the success we crave. Additionally, because of the overly connective nature of society, it’s all too easy for us to become negatively effected by the things we read, hear and see on TV. Although we tell ourselves that just a few minutes of screen time won’t hurt, the truth is that those minutes quickly add up into hours and days all the while we’re exposing ourselves to outside opinions that may give rise to faulty beliefs and limiting doubts. Eliminate the clutter and all the things that are going on outside and focus on the things that you can control with how you sort of go about and take care of your business. That’s something that’s ongoing, and it can never change. Relinquish Your Attachment to Outcomes: Because it’s the only way to maximize your potential and overcome the inevitable setbacks you’ll encounter. Of course, wins, promotions and championships are what most of us are striving for true greatness is only possible by similarity letting go of past failures and dreams of success while maintaining your focus on becoming the best. Of the downfalls that come from being overly concerned with winning the more one emphasizes winning, the less he or she is able to concentrate on what actually causes success. Develop Toughness & Discipline to Face Adversity: Being disciplined and unwilling to crumble when your back is against the wall is a trait that develops over time. Champions must develop an unyielding willpower to meet the demands of any challenge long before the moment occurs. Making the decision to go through the pain-filled process of developing discipline: There are two pains in life. There is the pain of discipline and the pain of disappointment. If you can handle the pain of discipline, then you’ll never have to deal with the pain of disappointment. Compete Against Yourself while Being Accountable to Others: Although there is much truth to the old sports adage that tells us there’s no ‘I’ in ‘Team’ however the whole can only be as good as the individual parts. Competing against yourself is the best way to become the best person, student, athlete and professional you can become, while simultaneously holding yourselves accountable to the team. This is how you create a culture where the personal standards of individuals continuously rise while they remain committed to the team first approach. There are two pains in life. There is the pain of discipline and the pain of disappointment. If you can handle the pain of discipline, then you’ll never have to deal with the pain of disappointment. My goal is to empower, inspire and transform you to create confident, happy purposeful individuals. Please check out my inspiring blog about Leadership - social media - Grit - Life Tips. https://www.brianpswift.com/blog You can also enjoy me AKA The Quadfather on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thee__quadfather/ and subscribe to my You Tube channel the Quadfather get fit while you sit. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwFDDydzb7Q_8CTyEnvEvrQ My superpower is driving human performance by inspiring transformation of people’s mindset. I use it to create confident, happy purposeful individuals. #coach #leadership #entrepreneur #growth #thequadfather #inspire #disabilities #speaking #exerrcise #writers #sales #mindset #transformation
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Brian SwiftBrian P Swift JD aka The Quadfather is a John Maxwell personal development coach, speaker, Best-Selling Author & Radio Personality. Brian lives life with no excuses he was born able bodied, and at the age of 17 a tragic football accident left him learning how to live life fully from a wheelchair as a quadriplegic. |